try to make hatred difficult to achieve.

we always look at the negative of people but fail to look at the positive. be optimistic, see only the good things.

人非圣贤，孰能无过？

if there is anyone whom u think is doing the wrong thing, instead of hating them or feeling disappointed, like what jingyi says, the more we should care for them. instead of clinching onto the hatred that makes us feel terrible, why not learn to love?

石头撞石头，擦出来的火花一定不比以柔对刚来得美丽。

ive finally understood the essence of 'follow your heart'. you only listen to the heart that has no attachment. only without attachment, you can find your way. if you think the person should know how you feel, go ahead and let them know, but without the attachment of ego, resentment, bitterness, dissatisfaction etc...

origin of suffering = attachment